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Helping needy Malagasy kids to become Jesus' kids! May 2010 Volume 13, Number 5 "A generous man will himself be blessed, for he shares his food with
the poor." Proverbs
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Yosly
Betikara officially received approval to operate from the Malagasy
government on July 29, 1998. We took in our first children in September of
1998, and Yosly came to Betikara on November 29, 1998, just four months
after Betikara was officially registered. Yosly was only 8 years old when
he became Betikara's eighth child. He was brought to Betikara from Diego
Suarez, a hot coastal city at the northern tip of Madagascar, by his
grandfather who stated that Yoslys mother and father were a bad influence
on Yosly and that it was hard for him to take care of
Yosly.
Yosly's arrival at Betikara was almost 12 years ago. You can see by the
above left picture that in the beginning Yosly was happy. Yosly found a
friend in Kit, and due to his young age he started to adapt well at
Betikara. There was a time in the beginning that Yosly was not happy. We
could not figure out what was wrong. We thought that maybe Yosly was
missing his family. Then we asked Kit what was troubling Yosly. Kit
replied by saying that he wanted to give Yosly his jacket. We could not
understand how this could make Yosly happy. Upon questioning Kit, Kit
stated that Yosly was COLD! Coming from a coastal hot area to the high
plateau area of Madagascar where Antananarivo is located was just too much
of a climate change for Yosly to handle. Of course, there was no need for
Kit to give up his jacket. We were just too out of sync to realize what a
big change the move was for Yosly. Once Kit enlightened us we provided
Yosly with a jacket and we also gave Yosly an extra blanket for his
bed. Yosly's life at Betikara has had its ups and downs. We were once asked by Yosly's grandfather if Yosly could travel north from Betikara to Diego Suarez where his family lives. We were told by Yosly's grandfather that if Yosly could travel a round trip plane ticket would be provided for Yosly. All we had to do was get Yosly to and from the airport which is very close to Betikara.
Prisca, Fetra, Princy, Clara, Yosly
We thought that this would be a very good experience for Yosly, so we
agreed. Yosly left Antananarivo and arrived in Diego Suarez safely.
However, Yosly's visit was far from being a new adventure and a pleasant
visit with his family. Yosly arrived in Diego Suarez to find that his
mother was very sick. The next day she died and was soon buried. We were
so saddened for Yosly upon hearing this news. One of the things that
saddened us most was to find out that Yosly's mother died an early death
that could have been prevented if she did not kill herself by
drinking.
We continue to notice changes in Yosly's life and his every day attitude.
One of the things we have noticed has troubled Yosly for several years.
Even when the Betikara Lambs were still housed in the center of
Antananarivo at Ankadivato before moving to their new home at Ambohimarina
in August of 2004 Yosly was complaining of what we thought was a stomach
problem or ulcers. Yosly would eat food and then quickly vomit up his
food. This condition continues even today. We have taken Yosly to
several doctors, clinics and hospitals. We have paid for extensive tests
that include having a tube put down Yosly's throat to check his esophagus
for cysts and abrasions as well as having his stomach checked for ulcers.
None of the test have revealed any medical problems. However, if you look
again at the top right picture on the front page of this newsletter you
will see a big difference from the picture on the left. Yosly no longer
has a happy smile, and he is always very skinny even though we know that
Yosly is not infested with worms.
Yosly has stated that when he is at school and eats lunch with the other
students in his class he does not have a problem of throwing up when he
eats. He also states that often when he is at Betikara and eats then he
throws up his food. We suggested to Yosly that his problem might not be a
medical or a physical problem. We suggested that Yosly's problem might be
stress or physiologically related. We told Yosly that he should try to
keep his mind busy and not think about things that might upset him in
various ways.
We suggested that Yosly should spend more time reading his bible and
praying in order to calm his thoughts. All of these suggestions do not
seem to help. This is somewhat understandable considering the things that
are happening in Yosly's life right now. Yosly is in his final year of
high school. He has the big leaving exam for high school coming up at the
end of this school year. This test is often linked to emotional problems
in students that are preparing to take the test. It seems that Yosly is no
exception to the norm.
Yosly is struggling at Betikara to find a place to fit in with the crowd.
Yosly usually sits in the teenage class on Sunday mornings at the
Ambohimarina congregation. However, recently Yosly started to rebel about
sitting in with the teenage class, and Yosly expressed a desire to move
out of that class. At first Yosly stated that he did not want to be
involved in Sunday School classes or worship time at all. Upon questioning
Yosly about this we found out that Yosly feels awkward sitting in with the
younger teenagers that are in that class. Yosly, after all, is a 20 year
old young adult even though he is still not finished with high
school.
On top of the pressure to do well on the end of year big exam for high
school, and feeling like his is not fitting in anywhere at Betikara, we
received word recently that Yosly's father died on May 3, 2010. His death
was also an early death that the family says was caused by excessive
drinking. Since Yosly is studying hard to get ready for the big year end
exam Yoslys grandfather asked that Yosly not come to Diego Suarez for his fathers funeral and
burial. In the almost 12 years that Yosly has resided at Betikara Yosly has not put his trust in Jesus and been immersed in baptism to give his life to the Lord. We continue to pray for Yoslys salvation and ask that you join us in prayer. We feel that once Yosly decides to let go of the worldly elements that are confusing and troubling his life, and accept a life with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ that Yosly will begin to feel more confident and at ease with himself. This will go a long way towards helping Yosly. Please pray for Yosly as he continues to struggle inwardly. |
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225 East Pike Rd. Indiana, PA 15701 U.S.A. He who is kind to the poor lends to the LORD, and he will reward him
for what he has done.
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